Where does our money go?
Life’s little “necessities” can really add up.
By Bridget Smith - Editor-in-Chief, Smart Borrower Center
Buying a home means reviewing your budget. And since my husband and I are shopping for our next home, we’ve been looking at our budget closely. It amazes me how all the little things add up - little things we consider “necessities.”
Adding up the necessities
Take the phone. Ten years ago I had one phone line, and I paid for long distance only when I used it. Now our landline phone bill includes call waiting, voice mail and long distance - and it has the price tag to match. We each have cell phones as well. My plan is $45 a month, my husband pays $70. So in total, we spend over $150 a month on the telephone. Does that sound crazy to you? It’s a little much for me.
Next is television. Growing up my family didn’t even have cable, so TV was free once you bought the box. But today, we have digital cable with HBO, Showtime and DVR. Each month we pay about $80 for television - even though nearly all the channels come with commercials. And that’s just the service. $500 used to pay for a high-end television. Now we’d be hard-pressed to find a nice flat screen for anywhere near that.
Internet access is another expense that is now a necessity - $40 out the door each month for that. In total we’re spending nearly $300 a month - that’s a car payment - for a new set of “utilities.” And we don’t have satellite radio, NetFlix, HDTV, magazine subscriptions or a cleaning service. If we were to add those items to our budget, it would be closer to $500 a month on all these little miscellaneous things.
What else do we pay for? Of course there are utilities like gas, water and electric. There’s the cost of groceries, eating out, gas for the car. Every once is a while, haircuts, manicures and pedicures. Plus a gym and golf club membership. (Golf can be a very expensive hobby!) We don’t think we live a lavish lifestyle - we live in a 1,300 square-foot ranch house and drive 6- and 7-year-old cars. But when I look at our spending, I feel like we’re living pretty large.
It all adds up - and so does your budget
How quickly it adds up is a little scary - and it shows why more people are going into debt. Many people - including me - view these things as necessities, when they’re not. So if you’ve got a $150 cable bill and $150 cell phone bill due but need to pay for groceries, you put it on a credit card. To keep car payments down, many people opt for 5 or even 7 year loans instead of 3. That may keep your car payment low, but it costs a lot more over the long run and you can even end up owing money for a car you no longer drive. That’s not smart.
Being smart about debt starts with being smart about spending - and I know I struggle with that sometimes, especially when we’ve got a wedding to go to and I want a $30 pedicure. It can be hard to live within your means (the secret to staying out of debt) when you feel entitled to DVR, broadband internet and new car every 4 years. Living like a miser isn’t the answer - but there are smarter choices.
Cutting the fat
So what are some options? For us, combining cell phone plans would likely save us $40 a month. We’ve already dropped the voice mail on our phone service and switched it to the local cable company. We used to eat out nearly every meal on weekends, now we eat in a lot more often. We’re not ready for more - the golf membership discussion was a short one. But at least we’ve started to realize that life’s little necessities can really make a dent in you budget!